Nothing commemorates the lasting love between two people better than the gift of an anniversary band. 

Choosing a ring with an appropriate setting is essential because various stones represent an array of meanings. Certain stones can represent anything from heartfelt emotions to outward expressions of love, and there are also unique gemstones that signify the years you’ve spent together. Whatever your choice, how you select your setting can further enhance the beauty and the symbolic meaning of this enduring gift.

Anniversary gemstones — which should not be confused with birthstones —are a great way of celebrating the many milestones of your relationship. There is a unique gemstone that symbolizes each year you spend together. When celebrating your first anniversary, a mother of pearl gemstone is the perfect choice. Ten years together is reflected in the beauty of a crystal. Twenty years is represented by the enduring splendor of an emerald. Whatever anniversary you are celebrating, considering a gemstone is a great way to celebrate the passing of the year that you’ve shared together. For a complete list of anniversary gemstones, search online for “anniversary gemstones.” 

Of course, there are a variety of gemstones that have special symbolic meanings, too. The pearl (for beauty), the ruby (for love), and the emerald (for growth) are all classic examples of the unspoken message you might choose to share. The obvious favorite is the diamond, which is considered by nearly everyone as one of the most timeless and romantic of all precious stones. A diamond anniversary ring is an ideal gift for any anniversary and can be found in an almost endless array of single stone or three-stone settings. 

But choosing an anniversary band is about more than just the stone setting. The choice of precious metals used to create the perfect anniversary band can also convey great meaning. Rings are commonly made of gold, silver or platinum. Titanium is sometimes used for its durability but it is not always recommended because it cannot be resized. Sterling silver is sometimes used (especially for a 25th anniversary, where it is also the anniversary gemstone) but, because it tarnishes easily, one might consider using white gold if looking for an enduring silver color. Gold bands also represent the “golden years” of any relationship, making its natural symbolism an obvious choice. 

Ultimately, an anniversary band should convey the personal meaning you intend toward that special someone. Whether for him or her, your significant other will certainly appreciate the effort you put into picking this wonderful anniversary present. 

While making an informed choice will enhance the symbolism behind your precious gift, choosing an anniversary ring that speaks from the heart is sure to serve as a symbol of the love and commitment you have shared — and will always share — throughout your lives together.